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So, The Lover's Creed is the foundation of the work i'm putting out for Lover's. I'm going to be building on this clip with lots of future podcasts so if you're into the podcasts and into using them to help you become an Unforgettable Lover, the best thing to do is to download [...]

One of the most annoying things i ever hear in media is the seemingly endless debate about whether or not size matters. Let me put it to you this way; imagine you unzip a guys pants and there staring you in the face is a foot long can of corn. That's something. There are some big penises out there. Big Big. Like, can't get your mouth around them big. And then there are their opposites.

A lot of people try to learn techniques to use when they're having sex. But having sex is about the connection between you and another person. And technique coupled with a lame connection is just weak. This video is about diving down into the deep waters of connection.

This is Part I of a two part series. Really this is the build up...it's just enough to get your attention roused so that you want to go all the way; you want to know how it's gonna' feel to really take the information...

This is from a promo we put together for the "How to Become an Unforgettable Lover" performance I do. It's such a good time to be in a room full of people who are reeking of pheromones, turned on, curious, pupils dilated, connected to the world around them.

This video is a little self-indulgent in its length but I'm not sure there's any way to convey the pure ecstasy of eating pussy within the 3-minute confines of videoblogging etiquette. You should listen to this with a sub-woofer between your legs. Loud. At work.

I love that even the most agnostic people, (probably atheists too but i've never had sex with a card carrying atheist), love to shout out the name of the lord while coming. Remember the neurons that fire together, wire together. So next time you're calling out to the lord, make it to the the lord of the moment...

People put so much drama in their relationships sometimes. For all of you out there who are enmeshed in a situation that just DOES NOT FIT, this will help you do what's best for both of you and end it.

This is from a gig I did at Bard College in '06. There are several longer versions of it with more info but the sound is so overmodulated that we figured we'd edit for the funny stuff and drop the erudite knowledge in another episode.

One of the most fretted over experiences in a lot of guys' sex lives is the point of no return - that moment before orgasm but after millions of little spermatazoa have begun their first, last, and great olympic run. This video has some tips on how to learn your own body enough that you get to decide when and if you're gonna go beyond that point tonight.