Connecting is a skill. Accessing the Connected State is foundational in generating truly ecstatic experiences - for yourself and others.

Everything starts with the Default and when you've made that true for yourself - you're in a world of...well, something before and beyond pleasure. And you'll stimulate that in others too.

Learning how to access and "run" the Default State is critical to state control, being an unforgettable lover and succeeding as a hedonist. The Default State is based on the Generalized Desired State or G.D.S. which comes from my mentor, Dr. Joseph Riggio's, Mythogenic® Self Model.

Watch this video and allow the image that you see in the video to become anchored to the experience you have watching the video.

I got an email tonight from a guy asking what he should talk about with a girl he was taking out on a date. Simple as it was, the email inspired me to remember what's most important to me.

Inspired by Amber Madison of www.AmberMadison.tv's straight talk on genital scent - here are some of my own thoughts on genital scents and those frisky pheromones that cause lust in all of us. If only this were smell-o-vision!

The way you think of yourself as a lover defines what is possible for you to do in the domain of being a lover. So, make the definition awesome. For example, "I am an Unforgettable Lover."

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Here's a quick and comical response to the ever-dreaded 5 second sex life that many men live with. This is a simple strategy you can use to instantly turn your limited lasting power to your advantage without thinking about some dude in a baseball leotard's ass while you're making love.

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