Connecting is a skill. Accessing the Connected State is foundational in generating truly ecstatic experiences - for yourself and others.

Everything starts with the Default and when you've made that true for yourself - you're in a world of...well, something before and beyond pleasure. And you'll stimulate that in others too.

Learning how to access and "run" the Default State is critical to state control, being an unforgettable lover and succeeding as a hedonist. The Default State is based on the Generalized Desired State or G.D.S. which comes from my mentor, Dr. Joseph Riggio's, Mythogenic® Self Model.

Watch this video and allow the image that you see in the video to become anchored to the experience you have watching the video.

The way you think of yourself as a lover defines what is possible for you to do in the domain of being a lover. So, make the definition awesome. For example, "I am an Unforgettable Lover."

The essence of behavioral shareware is the concept that behaviors are like computer programs – things you can swap out, update and trade.