Sex With Devon #21 - Accessing Connection
July 23rd, 2008Connecting is a skill. Accessing the Connected State is foundational in generating truly ecstatic experiences - for yourself and others. Humans are social creatures - we connect naturally. All you really need to do is learn to let go so that you're available for the connection right in front of you. Once you learn to do this, your senses open up to whoever you're with and you'll notice signals from your lover that most everyone else has missed. See Episode #17 - The Kelly Revelation for more on the Connected State.


August 24th, 2008 at 4:24 am
I read a simliar post just the other day by Sandra Kosineck but yours is much better.
January 9th, 2009 at 1:58 am
[...] That being said, being with a real woman is AMAZING. Yes, we ask for numbers, kiss first, and have awesome orgasms (please: if you had one, she should too.) Thanks, carnelian heart, for your great post!!! I also don't see what is so hard about asking someone for a number (male or female). It's just a phone number -- you're not proposing marriage. Love the orgasm comment! I can't believe there are so many times people have sex where the woman doesn't get to climax?! I think a guy would die if the woman stopped halfway through sex, announced she was done, and suddenly fell asleep. Maybe instead of promoting PUA acting, we can talk about real ways people can have these AMAZING experiences with other people. Here is one site I found interesting. His latest video is on making connections with another person via sex and relationships: Sex With Devon » Blog Archive » Sex With Devon #21 - Accessing Connection [...]