Sex With Devon #15 - Your Sexual Mythology
November 1st, 2007
Alright, so this is the second in The Lover's Creed series. In my fantasy world, one day we'll have all 26 of these done; an episode for each line in The Lover's Creed.
The essential point of this post is this:
Take control of your own mythology. Your mythology defines who you are becoming. It is the container for what you can do.
As a very simple explanation, ff you think you're nice - the entirety of who you are organizes to produce that experience for you and others to the point where it may even feel uncomfortable to do things that you have labeled "not nice" or "mean."
The way you think of yourself as a lover defines what is possible for you to do in the domain of being a lover. So, make the definition awesome. For example, "I am an Unforgettable Lover."
Build an awesome container and then fill it with great things - a resonant voice, a sensual way of moving, of touching, a look that can undress someone, an energy that does...well, anything that you want it to do.
I developed the Lover's Creed to grow into behavioral software. Something that people can use to install their own best version of being a lover into themselves. It's specific enough to give you guidelines but general enough for you to make it your own. Specific enough to make sure you get it right, general enough that it has room for you to put some soul into it.
This has got to be one of the most pleasurable domain of activities in the world - falling in love, making love, enabling another person to open up, bathing in the pleasure of your own muscles and feelings. Why we were not taught from an early age how to do it and how to do it really well is beyond me. So, here's my contribution to the next generation - may we all be great lovers.
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